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In the 1970s, my childhood was spent in an apartment above my parents’ funeral home. Because my parents drove the ambulance and operated the funeral home, we were the go-to in any emergency. This was a pretty typical experience for many funeral directors during this time. I fell in love with being needed and being the source of comfort for our small town. The ability to be there for those in need is what attracted me and countless others to the funeral profession. Another staple of my childhood was the ability of our small, locally owned funeral home to have the financial working capital we needed to successfully operate our business. I believe that these two situations go hand in hand: being relevant in our communities and being financially stable. I grew up, became a CPA and a licensed funeral director and embalmer. I was our CFO, an active funeral director, and owner of our funeral home. Since 1991, I have also been providing accounting services to funeral homes and cemeteries across the United States. In the last 10 years, I have witnessed several clients who are beginning to have serious financial struggles. Why would a profession that is vital to their communities be struggling? The answer is very complex, and I look forward to digging into each of our points of service as well as our pricing for those services at CANA’s 2026 Symposium this February. Here’s a preview of what we’ll discuss. The First CallMany times, having the appropriate information when attending the first call is invaluable in establishing a connection with the survivors. This is the time when the family will be most uncertain and in shock. You want to establish your role and your relevance to them. Do you have your best people on the first call in which they encounter family members? I believe adequate training and availability of vital information at the time of the first call are two items that are essential to serving the family in the best way possible. Ask yourself these questions:
The Arrangement ConferenceThe arrangement conference is your opportunity to be of most help to the family. Training your staff is the best way to make successful arrangements. Employing checklists and communicating different ways you can provide lasting healing over the coming days, weeks, or months is essential. This critical time can make or break the relevance of your services. Ask yourself these questions:
AftercareI believe that providing guidance once the service is over and the family has returned to their lives is the most important chance we as a profession have to generate goodwill, significance, and relevance. I also believe that in our own funeral home and in many funeral homes across this nation, we fail to provide much in the way of services for “aftercare.” The lack of working capital and adequate staffing is directly related to the reasons we don’t do a better job of providing care for the family after the service is completed. I believe we are missing a big opportunity to help the family. I also believe that we are the best source for providing aftercare services. Our staff has a relationship with the survivors and is in a wonderful position to continue our care after the funeral or memorial. We need to design and implement aftercare services just like we do cemetery, crematory, transportation, or other services we coordinate. We need to find a way to create training and grief services and find a way to fund these extra services. Pricing of our ServicesWe need to get creative. Every day, I see funeral home financials from across the country, and I am reminded of two critical challenges:
Let’s examine each of these in detail: Inflation. Funeral home pricing has not kept up with inflation. My paternal grandfather died in 1966. Reviewing our funeral home Red Book for 1966, I noticed the median funeral revenue per case was $1,250. When I apply that average to the average inflation rate according to the U.S. historical Inflation rates for each year since, we are losing against inflation by more than 10%. We should price our services in a way that allows us to serve our communities. Pricing cremation services. According to the NFDA, the median price for cremation services is less than the median for traditional burial revenue in the United States. From the funeral home revenues I see, many funeral homes are experiencing a much larger gap between the average revenue from burial and cremation. Most funeral homes have very large, fixed costs. Therefore, every case you handle should be assigned a portion of that fixed cost. You should do the same with all expenses: electricity, advertising, insurance, employees, employee benefits, property taxes, building maintenance, and auto expenses. These expenses are the same whether you have a burial or cremation. We have some work to do on our pricing, for sure. As a profession, we need to be sure that we understand the costs of each type of service we provide. Appropriate pricing is the key to having the financial working capital to meet the needs of our communities. What to Do Next?The funeral profession needs a reset. How do we reset in a way that is most beneficial for our employees, investors, and customers? I will offer a practical roadmap to restore profitability and sustainability through strategies to improve cash flow, build wealth, and adapt to future demographic and economic shifts this February at CANA’s 2026 Cremation Symposium. I hope you join me to learn actionable methods to manage inflation, leverage financing options, strengthen preneed programs, and move beyond burnout toward long-term financial health and business resilience. There are few professions that have as long a history of providing vital services to people in need. We need to take stock of our vast resources and employ our talents to continue providing these vital services long into the future. We would do anything for the families and the communities we serve. So, what do we do to make sure we’ll be there for them in the future? Drawing on decades of personal and professional expertise, Kara Ludlum heads to CANA’s 2026 Cremation Symposium to explore how many funeral homes and cemeteries— once financially strong—are now struggling amid changing industry dynamics and persistent self-sacrificing culture. Get your action plan in Las Vegas this February 25-27, 2026: register now!
This article excerpted with permission from Kara Ludlum and Osiris Software. She is also the co-founder of Osiris Software, a leading management software solution serving funeral homes and cemeteries in both the United States and Canada. In 2023, Osiris Software expanded its family of companies to include Insight Books and Certified Celebrants, where Kara continues to play a key role in supporting professionals who serve grieving families. Kara Ludlum has dedicated her career to the funeral profession. A second-generation funeral director and former funeral home owner, she brings both personal experience and professional expertise to the industry. Kara is a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) and senior partner at Ludlum & Mannen CPAs, a firm that works exclusively with funeral homes and cemeteries across the United States. With her unique combination of hands-on funeral service experience, financial expertise, and software innovation, Kara is recognized as a trusted leader and advocate for funeral professionals across North America.
Every February, CANA invites the profession to gather in Las Vegas to talk about the future—new ideas, fresh approaches, the next big thing. Yet time and again, we go home and default to what’s comfortable, sticking with the tried-and-true until outside forces push us to adapt. This isn’t new. Cremation is a textbook example. For a century, it was an outlier—slow to catch on. Then, almost overnight, it became the default. The truth is, if you looked closely, the clues were always there. In only a few decades, cremation went from an alternative option to the main choice for most families. This shift didn’t happen because the profession was ahead of the curve—it happened because families changed what they wanted, practicalities shifted, and laws eventually followed. By the time the industry at large realized what was going on, the transformation was already complete. If there’s one important lesson from the last 150 years we’ve learned; the future doesn’t arrive in a straight, predictable line. It builds quietly—then it takes off before anyone’s ready. The Signals We’re Calling “Exceptions”To get a sense of where cremation is headed, you don’t need dramatic predictions. You just have to pay attention to what we brush off as odd, rare, or “not what our families want.” Those “exceptions” don’t stay exceptions for long. Take a hard look at what’s already shifting--
The biggest clues about what’s coming don’t show up as “trends.” They show up as points of friction—little moments where expectations and reality no longer line up. Cremation: More Than a ProcessWe tend to talk about cremation as a technical decision, but it’s always been much more—a response to changing times: space, mobility, beliefs, finances, and trust. What’s shifting now isn’t how common cremation is but what families quietly hope it will provide. Continuity, not just closure. Access, not just distance. Proof, not just assumption. Half a century ago, cremation overtaking burial sounded unthinkable. Now, the real discomfort is coming from somewhere else: the idea that remembrance might no longer be tied to a place—or even to a lifespan. That tension isn’t theoretical—it’s already shifting how people act and what they ask for. Speed: The Real Game ChangerWhat’s coming in cremation isn’t about one breakthrough. It’s about all these pressures colliding—and doing so much faster than our policies, routines, or comfort zones would like. When that tipping point comes, “adapting” won’t be considered innovative—it’ll just be expected. History hasn’t been kind to those in our field who confused gradual change with slow change. The funeral homes most caught off guard by the rise of cremation weren’t the ones who resisted—they were the ones who underestimated just how quickly the landscape could shift. The next big shift? It’ll feel eerily familiar. Peeking Into the Future (No Spoilers)In 2026, I’ll have the honor of keynoting CANA’s Symposium. I’ll talk about what the past teaches us, the signals we can already see, and why taking the long view on cremation is more necessary than ever. Some of what we’ll cover will sound familiar. Some will feel too soon. And some will push back on beliefs we’ve long held as unshakeable. That’s intentional. Because the future of cremation won’t be shaped by those waiting for certainty or permission. It will be forged by those willing to notice the subtle changes already happening—and act before they become impossible to ignore. The signals are right in front of us. The window to act isn’t endless. If we’ve learned anything from history, it’s this: Our profession will adapt—one way or another. In a rapidly changing environment, taking one step back can give you the space you need to get a running leap forward. This February, join Larry Stuart, Jr. and explore what today’s trends reveal about tomorrow’s possibilities. Gather with colleagues to get inspired, gain practical strategies, and generate the energy you need for the year ahead at the CANA’s 2026 Cremation Symposium this February 25-27 in Las Vegas.
As the United States celebrates 150 years of cremation history, you’re invited to bring the future into focus with Larry Stuart, Jr. Register for CANA’s 2026 Cremation Symposium at the Paris Las Vegas Hotel and Casino.
His personal mission is to raise professional standards and help change the way people think about funeral service – bringing clarity, care, and respect to every step of the process. Of course, Larry also knows there’s more to life than his work. He’s a traveler, foodie, dog lover, and a firm believer that good coffee makes for better conversations.
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